Friday, May 02, 2008


What a difference a day-off can make!

Two days ago, Kenzie decided to take the day off. We usually have a pretty smooth morning before school, we get her sister off on the bus and then she and I get a little time to spend together while she gets ready for her bus to school. I observed very clear behaviors from her that she wanted the day off. Of course, she couldn't tell me but she patted my thigh during breakfast an indication that she wanted to sit on my lap (I love this "sign", because it means mom gets cuddles!!). When we moved over to the couch to get dressed she absolutely refused to sit-up. I'm not sure how to describe it but her body was entirely limp and stiff at exactly the same time. There was no way I was going to get her dressed. Every time I mentioned school she would get really upset. I got the picture...no school today!
Once she realized I wasn't going to send her off she relaxed and had a nap for awhile. However, it was also a beautiful day, sunny, 70ish degrees outside, so I opened the back sliding door so the dog could go in and out (he's always on the wrong side of the door). In a blink, Kenzie was out the door and half a football field away to our swing set. This feat is incredible! Upon arriving at the equipment she was half-way up the ladder on her own EXTRAORDINARY!!!! and then with very little assistance from me (by now I had made it out there) she was to the top on her perch. She loves to be up high looking out - I often call her birdie because of this and I think she looks a bit bird like - long skinny legs, very observant eyes.... Thinking this was a great chance to do a little strengthening, I put her on the swing. She usually can't sit up without her bottom slumping back and nearly falling off. Not today! She sat up straight, used her legs to move herself back and forth.... When did all this happen? Have I been sleep walking through this extraordinary development, or did it happen quite literally overnight???
The rest of the day Kenzie did sleep a lot. The next morning she was ready to go back to school, as if she had presented all of her accomplishments and therefore prepared to take on some new challenges again.

And then this happened:

A in the snow on May Day!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

WOW. What a beautiful day that must have been. You are a dear Mother to have sensed that Mackenzie simply didn't want to go to school. And she "rewarded" you with physical prowess that you weren't expecting. What a wonderful development. I think that little girl has more surprises ahead for you -- and for all of us. Love, Grammie Sherry